Perbedaan antara COWOK KEREN dan cowok sombong sok alpha male pickup artist BULLSHIT!

by Ronald Frank

Gini..

Cowok keren tuh KELIHATAN SOMBONG! Kadang keliatan seperti ORANG BELAGU!! Tapi entah kenapa TETAP AJA KEREN!!

Nah ada juga yang COBA-COBA KEREN dengan gaya sombong, tengil atau BELAGU, tapi GA KENA!!

Jadi bedanya dimana?

NIH!!

SATU: PEDE itu ABSOLUT. GA PERLU DIBELA.

Kalo COWOK KEREN yang PEDE, dia PEDE MAMPUS sama dirinya!! ..dia NINGGI-NINGGI-IN dirinya.. dia MENDEWA-DEWA-KAN dirinya!! ..dia MERASA KEREN, dan BILANG DIRINYA KEREN!

Nah kalo ada orang berusaha bikin dia ciut dengan bilang dia sombong, tengil, belagu, cupu, dll, DIA CUEKIN!!

Kalo orang yang SOK-SOK KEREN, waktu ada yang berusaha bikin dia ciut, dia malah DEBAT BELA DIRI.

Tuh beda paling besar!!

Orang PEDE bisa aja debat, tapi bukan untuk bela diri. Dia debat untuk NGASIH TAU FAKTA dan KEBENARAN. Dia ga NGEBELA diri untuk memperdebatkan ke-KEREN-an dirinya. Itu absolut. Yang dia debatkan adalah OPINI tentang SUBJEK yang dibicarakan.

Kalo OPINI nya salah, dia bilang “oh iya! lo bener!” dan dia TETEP MERASA KEREN tanpa merasa dirinya LEBIH GOBLOK dari lawan bicaranya.

Dia FAIR kalo soal diskusi-diskusi. Tapi soal opini terhadap dirinya, DIA TUTUP KUPING.

Di seting sosial, kamu bisa LIAT JELAS mana ORANG GOBLOK YANG KEPEDEAN, sama orang yang PEDE DAN BENER-BENER PINTER.

DUA: ORANG KEREN itu GA MAKSA, cuma NGASIH PILIHAN.

CONTOH 1

Orang CUPU: “Jalan yuk!”

Cewek: “Nanti aja ah! aku sibuk!”

Orang CUPU: “Yaaahhh.. PLIIISSS.. I NEED YOU!! PLIIISSS..” *lalu nyanyi lagu boyband korea, justin bieber atau one direction..

Cewek: “…” * tutup telpon

Orang CUPU: *terus nyanyi kirain ceweknya masih dengerin..

KRIK!!

CONTOH 2

Orang CUPU: “Jalan yuk!”

Cewek: “Nanti aja ah! aku sibuk!”

Orang CUPU: “EH KATRO LO!! LO TAU GUE SIAPA?? GUE INI KEREN TAU!! GUE INI COWOK MAPAN, KAYA, GANTENG!!.. CEWEK2 NGANTRI BUAT DAPETIN GUE!! LO SIAPA? HEH?? DASAR PECUN!!.. HALOH?? HALOH?? HALOH??”

KRIK!!

CONTOH 3

Orang KEREN: “Jalan yuk!”

Cewek: “Nanti aja ah! aku sibuk!”

Orang KEREN: “Yaudah santai.. nih catet nomor HP aku! kalo udah ga sibuk, kasih tau ya!! ..soalnya jalan sama aku tuh SERU MAMPUS!! ..tapi itu juga KALO AKU LAGI GA SIBUK!! Oke.. see you!! ..BAY!!

SHABAM!!

TAROHAN SAMA GUE: KALO TUH CEWEK GA PENASARAN SAMA LO, atau enggak, dia bilangin SOAL LO ke TEMEN-TEMEN nya dan temen-temen nya YANG MALAH PENASARAN MAMPUS sama lo!

TIGA: ORANG KEREN itu GA PAMER atau NGERENDAHIN ORANG

Yang BULLSHIT dan FUCKED UP banget dari pickup artist dan antek-antek nya adalah, mereka ngajarin kalo supaya LO PUNYA VALUE, lo HARUS NGERENDAHIN ORANG!

Jadilah muncul ALPHA-MALE wanna be yang kerjaan nya SOK KEREN dan SOMBONG dengan ngerendahin orang!

..dan kalo lo pernah ketemu SALAH SATU ORANG INI, LU OTOMATIS MUAK SAMA MEREKA!!

True??

Orang KEREN tuh ga ngerendahin orang men! ..dia justru NGANGKAT ORANG LAIN, tapi NGANGKAT DIRINYA LEBIH TINGGI LAGI!!

Nih bandingin perbincangan ORANG CUPU yang SOMBONG dengan ORANG KEREN!

ORANG CUPU

Orang CUPU: “Lo kuliah dimana?”

Cewek: “UPH”

Orang CUPU: “Oh.. universitas murah itu ya?? hih!! katro ah!!”

ORANG KEREN

Orang KEREN: “Lo kuliah dimana?”

Cewek: “UPH”

Orang KEREN: “Oh, UPH.. bagus tuh univ nya. Cuma orang-orang cantik aja yang kuliah disana..”

Cewek: “Emang lo kuliah dimana??”

Orang KEREN: “Harvard.”

Cewek: “Harvard, Cambridge, Massachusetts??”

Orang KEREN: “Iya lah.. mana lagi?” *senyum setengah

-atau-

Orang KEREN: “Lo kuliah dimana?”

Cewek: “UPH”

Orang KEREN: “Oh, UPH.. bagus tuh univ nya. Cuma orang-orang cantik aja yang kuliah disana..”

Cewek: “Emang lo kuliah dimana??”

Orang KEREN: “Ga kuliah.. lagi sibuk urus bisnis..”

Cewek: “oh.. bisnis apa?”

Orang KEREN: “Kelapa sawit sama batubara. Baru jalan sih.. cuma target beli private jet tahun depan! ..biar bisa jalan sama kamu ke Hawaii..” *senyum setengah

SHABAM!!!

Gini loh.. ORANG PEDE tuh ga ngerendahin orang lain! ..yang ngerendahin orang tuh cuma ORANG SOMBONG.

Jadi beda PEDE sama SOMBONG itu adalah: PEDE itu OTENTIK, SOMBONG itu NGERENDAHIN ORANG.

Maksudnya OTENTIK adalah: dia JUJUR NGOMONG APA ADANYA dan APA YANG DIA INGINKAN TANPA PEDULI ORANG LAIN BAKAL PIKIR APA KARENA DIA MERASA MAMPU DAN YAKIN AKAN DIRINYA *BUKAN* KARENA DIA CUMA PENGEN DAPET PENGAKUAN.

Dia juga CUEK dan GA KEPANCING DEBAT kalau ada orang yang ingin MENDEBAT OTENTISITAS nya karena dia GA CARI-CARI PENGAKUAN ORANG.

TAKE IT or LEAVE IT.

This is ME!

I TASTE GOOD!

GO AHEAD, TRY IT!

IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT, PLEASE LEAVE.. I NEED TIME TO FUCKING ENJOY MYSELF!!

Orang PEDE juga GA PERLU PAMER-PAMER.. Yang suka PAMER adalah ORANG CULUN yang berusaha menutupi KERAGUAN AKAN DIRINYA dengan HARTA, STATUS atau PRESTASI nya.

Udang dibalik BERLIAN.

A stupid weak SHEEP hiding behind a false plastic WOLF mask.

Kalo lo YAKIN sama diri lo, lo GA PERLU ngerendahin orang! ..kalo lo YAKIN sama diri lo, lo GA PERLU PAMER-PAMER! ..kalo lo YAKIN sama diri lo, lo cukup JADI DIRI LO APA ADANYA dan EKSPRESIKAN DIRI LO SESUKA HATI LO, SEBAGAIMANA ADANYA, SE-OTENTIK MUNGKIN!!

Kalo ada yang berusaha bikin lu ciut, LO GA USAH MARAH, DEBAT atau MINDER! ..CUKUP CUEKIN AJA!! ..karena JAUH DIDALAM HATI LO, lo TAU bahwa mereka sebenarnya CUMA KAGUM dan IRI sama KEYAKINAN dan PEDE MAMPUS LO!!

Itu BARU KEREN!!

Itu BARU VALUE!!

EMPAT: ORANG PEDE itu JUJUR

Orang PEDE itu JUJUR. Dia GA SUKA BOHONG!

Kalo lagi GA PUNYA, dia bilang! Dia GA SUKA BOHONG demi GENGSI!! Dia CUEK sama PENDAPAT ORANG LAIN yang negatif. Dia lebih milih KEJUJURAN daripada TAMPAK SEMPURNA tapi ISINYA KOSONG!!

Yang BIKIN orang PEDE jadi keren bukanlah APA YANG DIA PUNYA, tapi KEJUJURAN dan OTENTISITAS NYA!!

Saat lagi GA PUNYA dia bilang GA PUNYA, Saat lagi GA BISA dia bilang GA BISA.. tapi dia GA MINDER!!

..kalo orang cupu PUNYA SEGALANYA tapi merasa GA PUNYA APA-APA jadinya MINDER!!

MINDER adalah karena seseorang merasa dirinya TIDAK PERNAH CUKUP untuk dapat MENJADI DIRINYA SENDIRI. Dia selalu BERGANTUNG kepada EKSPEKTASI dan HARAPAN-HARAPAN ORANG LAIN!!

Contohnya: dia selalu pakai pakaian yang ORANG PIKIR KEREN!! DIA KORBAN FASHION dan BRANDED!! ..dia TAKUT untuk ber-eksperimen dan CARI TAU pakaian apa yang sebenarnya MENURUT DIA SENDIRI KEREN!!

ITULAH kenapa LADY GAGA, KURT COBAIN, JIM MORRION, BRUCE LEE dan MUHAMMAD ALI itu KEREN!! ..karena mereka PUNYA STYLE SENDIRI!! ..GA NYONTEK atau ditentukan oleh TREND atau FASHION!

Balik lagi bahwa orang PEDE itu GA SUKA BOHONG.

Kalo ada orang yang nanya tapi dia merasa ga pantas dia jawab, dia LEBIH BAIK DIAM daripada BOHONG.

Diapun SELALU membicarakan KEMUNGKINAN BESAR akan HAL HEBAT YANG DAPAT IA BUAT dibandingkan membicarakan KESALAHAN DIMASA LALU atau KEKURANGAN YANG IA MILIKI SAAT INI.

Dia bicara SAYA MAMPU JADI HEBAT, dibandingkan SAYA *KEMARIN* DITOLAK atau SAYA BELUM PUNYA INI-ITU!!

APAPUN KONDISINYA, dia SEMANGAT dan PENUH KEPASTIAN karena FOKUS nya adalah MENSYUKURI APA YANG DIA SUDAH PUNYA, dan TERUS BERJALAN UNTUK JADI LEBIH HEBAT *SESUAI* KEINGINAN NYA.

Sedangkan ORANG CUPU berfokus kepada APA YANG DIA BELUM PUNYA dan BERJALAN SESUAI EKSPEKTASI atau HARAPAN ORANG LAIN.

ORANG KEREN itu TIDAK PERNAH TAKUT PENILAIAN ORANG, sehingga dia BERANI JUJUR, BERANI MENJADI DIRINYA SENDIRI dan PEDE MAMPUS!!

DIA BER-OPERASI berdasarkan AKAR JATI DIRI, bukan FAKTOR LUAR.

Oleh karena itu, LO HARUS NGERTI BAHWA:

LO ITU PINTER!!

LO ITU KEREN!!

LO ITU MAMPU!!

LO BAKAL JADI KAYA!!

DAN LO PEDE MAMPUS!!

YANG PENTING, APAPUN YANG LO INGINKAN *PASTI DATANG* ASAL LO JALAN TERUS!! TUTUP KUPING BUAT YANG NEGATIF, JADI DIRI LO SENDIRI dan EKSPRESIKAN DIRI LO SEMAKSIMAL MUNGKIN!

DON’T WAIT!!

MOVE FULLY AS YOURSELF!!

MOVE FULLY FROM YOUR *ROOTS* OF BEING!!

DON’T BE FAKE!! ..BE REAL!!

..dan, ITU KEREN!!

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