Cara pencinta hadapi pembenci

by Ronald Frank

Apa yang harus dilakukan saat ada orang yang jahat sama kamu, suka fitnah kamu, jelek-jelek-in kamu dibelakang, atau bahkan didepan cewe atau didepan umum?

Senyum aja.. ga usah dibalas apalagi dendam.

Sadari aja kalo orang yang jahat ke kamu adalah orang yang entah iri atau punya masalah dalam dirinya yang dilampiaskan ke kamu.

Lagian dengan dia melampiaskan ke kamu, masalahnya juga ga akan selesai. Dia cuma ngerasa nyaman sebentar. Abis itu stress lagi.

Orang yang jahat sama kamu berusaha membakar kamu. Jangan dibalas, nanti kamu terbakar. Lebih baik diemin aja nanti dia juga kebakar sendiri karena main api.

Ga usah berusaha meyakinkan orang2 yang kemakan fitnah nya. Kebenaran nanti akan ketahuan sendiri.
Inget aja kita ini pencinta, bukan tukang benci.

Jadi, daripada membenci, cukup mengasihani aja.

Cukup bilang “kasihan deh kamu. Mau dipeluk?”

Lalu senyum dan pergi.

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