Kenapa sih PERJUANGAN CINTA lo BEGITU BERAT?
Pernah ga lo BERHENTI SEJENAK dan bertanya sama diri lo:
“Kenapa sih perjuangan cinta gua sama cewek begitu berat?”
..atau..
“Kenapa sih hubungan gua sama pacar begitu berat?”
..atau bahkan..
“Kenapa sih SELURUH HIDUP GUA begitu berat?”
Tipikal JAWABAN BULLSHIT yang akan lo terima dari masyarakat adalah: “YA KARENA HIDUP LO EMANG BERAT!! ..UDAH JANGAN BANYAK BACOT!! ..KERJA KERAS LAGI SANA!!”
Oh, Man.. What a LOAD OF BULLSHIT!!
Alasan sebenarnya kenapa perjuangan cinta dan hidup lo terasa berat adalah: karena lo *GA CINTA* dengan APA YANG LO KERJAKAN!!
Itu doang.
SIMPLE.
Kalo lo mengerjakan sesuatu yang LO GAK BISA NIKMATIN, maka lo bakal berasa BEBAN MAMPUS ngerjain nya, walaupun kerjaan lo itu AMAT SANGAT GAMPANG DAN MUDAH!!
Tapi sebaliknya, kalo lo CINTA dengan apa yang lo kerjain, maka SESUSAH APAPUN ITU lo pasti selalu bisa punya ENERGI, FOKUS dan SUMBER DAYA untuk MENCARI JALAN TERCEPAT dan TER-EFEKTIF untuk menyelesaikan nya!
THAT’S IT!!
It’s just about LOVE!!
Kalo lo NGEJAR CEWEK dan BERASA BERAT, itu karena lo sebenarnya GA CINTA SAMA SI CEWEK!! ..karena kalo lo cinta, lo ga akan merasa beban sama sekali WALAUPUN SUSAHNYA MINTA AMPUN!!
Begitu juga dalam hubungan lo pacaran atau hubungan yang lain nya.. LO GA PERNAH SAMA SEKALI NGERASA BEBAN kalo lo emang BENER-BENER CINTA sama dia!!
Faktanya, lo MERASA BERAT saat ngejar atau mempertahankan cinta si cewek adalah karena PERJUANGAN LO sebenarnya bukanlah soal cinta, melainkan soal EGO LO yang mati-matian berusaha merubahnya agar menjadi SEPERTI YANG LO MAU!!
Kalo lo bener-bener cinta dia, lo GA AKAN BERUSAHA NGERUBAH DIA!! ..lo hanya cukup menerima dia APA ADANYA dan CINTAI DIA sebagaimana adanya. Dengan begitu, LO GA AKAN SAMA SEKALI MERASA BEBAN!!
Sekali lagi, kalo LO BENER-BENER CINTA, walaupun sepertinya susah nerima dia apa adanya, lo ga akan merasa beban SAMA SEKALI!!
IRIS KUPING GUA KALO SALAH!!
Saat LO CINTA melakukan sesuatu, maka lo akan OTOMATIS jadi BUDAK CINTA!! ..tapi untungnya, budak cinta TIDAK PERNAH TERASA SEPERTI BUDAK!!
Contohnya saat lo cinta untuk main video game!! ..lo bisa berjam-jam ga makan dan ga tidur DEMI TAMATIN VIDEO GAME FAVORIT lo!! ..lo bener-bener seperti BUDAK VIDEO GAME!! ..tapi yang lo rasakan bukanlah jadi budak video game, melainkan KENIKMATAN SURGA SAAT BERMAIN VIDEO GAME!!
BUDAK CINTA = SURGA!!
Itupun yang terjadi sama gua.. gua CINTA untuk bikin posting tentang cinta, kehidupan dan spiritual!! ..gua bisa KAYAK ORANG GILA untuk nulis posting dan interview orang.. IT’S BECAUSE I LOVE IT!! ..I ENJOY IT!!
Oleh karena itu, kalo lo merasakan beban apapun dalam hidup lo, maupun percintaan lo, COBA CEK LAGI apakah lo bener-bener cinta, atau itu hanya EGO lo doang yang HARUS LO LEPAS!!
Kalo itu SOAL EGO, lo harus PUNYA KEBERANIAN untuk dapat melepaskan APAPUN dan SIAPAPUN YANG LO UDAH GA CINTAI itu.. Karena kalo lo pertahankan, maka hidup lo hanya akan SEMAKIN BERAT dan BERAT dan BERAT!!
Jangan pernah percaya BULLSHIT MASYARAKAT yang bilang: Kalo lo mau sesuatu, LO HARUS BERJUANG MATI-MATIAN!!
FUCK MAN!!
It’s a TOTAL BULLSHIT!!
FUCK NO!!
Justru kalo lo berjuang, lo PASTI GAGAL!! ..dan andaikan lo berhasil pun, lo hanya akan sadar bahwa LO BERJUANG UNTUK SESUATU YANG SALAH!!
JANGAN PERNAH BERJUANG!! ..it’s a waste of time!!
Yang seharusnya lo lakukan adalah CARI TAU apa yang bener-bener LO BISA CINTAI DENGAN TOTAL, lalu LAKUKAN HAL ITU!! ..itu akan JAUH MEMBAWA LO MELEBIHI SEGALA MACAM PERJUANGAN BULLSHIT LO!!
Cinta bukan soal PERJUANGAN!! ..perjuangan itu EGO BULLSHIT lo yang menyamar sebagai cinta!!
Cinta adalah soal MENIKMATI PROSES mengerjakan APAPUN, dengan SIAPAPUN yang bersama lo!
ITU DOANG!! ..SIMPLE!!
Sayangnya BEGITU BANYAK BULLSHIT di masyarakat yang membuat CINTA menjadi begitu kompleks dan penuh MISS-UNDERSTANDING!!
So, remember this:
If you LOVE IT, you’ll ENJOY IT!!
If you DON’T love it, LET IT GO!! ..or, you’ll SUFFER from it.
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