Hidup memang serba salah..!!

by Ronald Frank

stressHIDUP memang SERBA SALAH.

Maaf jika terdengar pesimis, namun itulah KENYATAAN nya.

Kita sebagai manusia memiliki ILUSI untuk berpikir bahwa kita akan BAHAGIA jika kita MEMILIKI, MENDAPATKAN atau MENJADI seperti apa yang kita inginkan.

“Saya akan BAHAGIA jika saya mendapatkan pacar cantik, ganteng, setia, kaya, penurut, badboy, badgirl, nice guy, nice girl, muda, tua, dewasa, imut, cute, tinggi, pendek, putih, hitam, dan lain-lain”.

“Saya akan BAHAGIA jika saya jadi artis, sutradara, milyarder, manager, pengusaha, pemodal, pekerja kantoran, presiden, menteri, gubernur dan lain-lain”.

“Saya akan BAHAGIA jika saya punya baju mahal, mobil mahal, rumah mahal, harta karun, pulau, pesawat, helikopter dan lain-lain”.

Namun KENYATAAN nya, kita tidak kunjung bahagia WALAUPUN kita SUDAH memiliki, mendapatkan ataupun menjadi seperti apa yang kita inginkan.

Awalnya mau pacar cantik/ganteng.
Setelah dapat pacar cantik/ganteng ingin yang imut.
Setelah dapat yang imut ingin yang setia.
Setelah dapat yang setia ingin yang penurut.
Setelah dapat yang penurut ingin yang agak binal.
Setelah dapat yang agak binal ingin yang luar biasa.
Setelah dapat yang luar biasa ingin yang biasa.

Mau keluar negeri, tapi setelah keluar negeri malah rindu pulang.
Mau terkenal, tapi setelah terkenal malah butuh privacy.
Saat sibuk mau santai. Saat santai mau sibuk.
Mau benda A, tapi setelah dapat A ternyata ingin B.

Hidup MEMANG SERBA SALAH, bukan?

Kita manusia TIDAK AKAN PERNAH BAHAGIA..

saya ulangi..

Kita manusia TIDAK AKAN PERNAH BAHAGIA..

..jika kita masih memiliki ILUSI bahwa kebahagiaan akan datang SAAT kita memiliki, mendapatkan atau menjadi seperti apa yang kita inginkan.

Kebahagiaan datang bukanlah saat kita memiliki, mendapatkan atau menjadi seperti apa yang kita inginkan, melainkan saat kita MENCINTAI dan MENSYUKURI apa yang kita miliki SAAT INI.

Mengapa SAAT INI?

Karena hari kemarin SUDAH LEWAT, dan hari esok BELUM DATANG.

Kita hanya dapat merasakan sesuatu SAAT INI dan SAAT INI saja.

gratitude

Jika anda belum punya pacar, bersyukurlah karena anda masih punya kebebasan untuk bergaul dengan lawan jenis seluas-luasnya tanpa larangan atau kecemburuan seorang pacar.

Jika anda belum sukses soal percintaan, bersyukurlah karena anda masih bisa membeli eBook dan mengikuti seminar saya yang tentu saja akan amat sangat membantu kehidupan percintaan anda.

Jika anda belum punya apa-apa, bersyukurlah karena anda masih bisa hidup, masih bisa makan, masih bisa menikmati kesehatan, dan masih bisa membaca tulisan saya yang amat sangat luar biasa spektakuler ini.

Oleh karena itu, CINTAI dan SYUKURI apapun yang anda punya SAAT INI.

Saat anda mencintai dan mensyukuri apapun yang anda punya SAAT INI, maka hidup tidak lagi SERBA SALAH, melainkan SERBA PUAS, SERBA NIKMAT.

Saat anda mencintai dan mensyukuri apa yang anda punya SAAT INI, saat ini pula lah anda BAHAGIA.

Namun apakah MENCINTAI dan MENSYUKURI apa yang anda punya saat ini BERARTI anda TIDAK MELAKUKAN APA-APA untuk memiliki, mendapatkan atau menjadi seperti apa yang anda inginkan?

TENTU SAJA TIDAK.

MENCINTAI dan MENSYUKURI apa yang anda punya saat ini BUKAN BERARTI anda TIDAK MELAKUKAN APA-APA untuk memiliki, mendapatkan atau menjadi seperti apa yang anda inginkan. Hanya saja INGAT bahwa memiliki, mendapatkan dan menjadi seperti apa yang anda inginkan TIDAKLAH membuat anda BAHAGIA.

Yang membuat kita BAHAGIA adalah saat kita MENCINTAI dan MENSYUKURI apa yang kita miliki SAAT INI.

Lakukanlah YANG TERBAIK untuk memiliki, mendapatkan dan menjadi seperti apa yang anda inginkan, namun CINTAI, SYUKURI dan NIKMATI setiap detik PROSES nya mulai SAAT INI.

Hidup memang serba salah. Oleh karena itu, nikmati saja.

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