Penampilan adalah segalanya?
Beberapa saat yang lalu, terjadi perbincangan disalah satu forum. Perbincangan nya cukup menarik, sehingga saya jadikan artikel disini.
“Mendingan forum ini, diskusikan fashion juga, supaya si cewek gak malu jika jalan sama kita”
“Mindset dulu bro benahin..fashion no sekian buat diri kita nyaman dulu broo !”
“Penampilan itu awal dari ketertarikan bro, tapi penampilan bukan segalanya”
“Yang penting nyaman n pd gan, apapun fasion ente, ane sebenernya suka fasion n sedikit tau, tapi ane palahan fasionnya gembel. Hahaha”
“Setuju”
“Setuju haha”
RF: Kalau fashion kamu bagus dan mahal tapi kelakuan kamu aneh, tetap aja cewe malu jalan sama kamu.
“Klakuan aneh sprt ap bang xron??”
“Sepakat…….wanita itu jugasuka melihat pampiln luar seorng pria…”
Ronald Frank:
saya mau komentar sedikit tentang “penampilan itu awal dari ketertarikan bro, tapi penampilan bukan segalanya”, jika berkenan.
Penampilan dan kelakuan itu satu paket. Jadi awal dari ketertarikan adalah penampilan + kelakuan, bukan penampilan saja.
Karena, saat kamu berada didepan wanita, kamu ga mungkin berpenampilan menarik dan hanya diam seperti patung lalu wanita langsung tertarik. Kamu ada didepan wanita (dengan pakaian mahal) PLUS bicara dengan nya.
Saya memiliki beberapa teman kaya yang begitu memperhatikan penampilan. Wajah ganteng, badan bagus, fitnes, bisa fashion, branded mahal. Apa tertarik? ..tidak! wanita hanya nyaman jadi teman.
Kita bisa dialog ber-jam-jam membahas fakta hal ini, tapi untuk mempersingkat waktu, saya berikan pendapat saya.
Ketertarikan berawal dari KARAKTER mu. Penampilan itu nomor DUA.
Saat saya bilang begitu, banyak yang salah persepsi dengan mengartikan bahwa kalau semua berawal dari karakter, berarti GA USAH PERHATIKAN PENAMPILAN. Itu salah.
Penampilan tetap harus diperhatikan, namun BUKAN BERARTI harus BELAJAR FASHION dan memakai branded, dll.
Perhatikan penampilan SEWAJARNYA, karena penampilan yang WAJAR dan RAPIH adalah bentuk dari KESOPANAN.
Pakai pakaian yang rapih, bersih, pas dibadan ga kegedean. Sisir rambut, urus badan, dan lain-lain. ITU CUKUP.
Yang saya kasihan adalah, banyak yang punya mindset “penampilan itu awal dari ketertarikan”, malah jadi fokus ke penampilan dan berpenampilan yang aneh-aneh (atau mahal-mahal) DEMI DAPAT PERHATIAN. Namun ujung-ujungnya mereka berpenampilan seperti untuk cari-cari perhatian.
Mereka seperti bersembunyi dibalik “pakaian mahal”, namun saat TAU ORANG nya, karakternya tidaklah seperti penampilan nya.
Itu bagaikan sebuah produk yang bungkusnya bagus, tapi isinya tidak sebagus bungkusnya.
Namun sekali lagi ini hanya pengamatan saya dari teman-teman saya yang ganteng, kaya dan suka berpenampilan menarik, namun wanita hanya nyaman jadi teman saja.
Dilain sisi, yang tampilan nya biasa saja (tapi rapih, bersih, elegan) malah membuat wanita tertarik.
..dan (menurut saya), itu karena karakter mereka LEBIH BESAR dari penampilan mereka. KARAKTER (yang menarik) bermula dari MINDSET, bukan penampilan.
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